VLOG: A Plea for Fashion Advice

I haven't done a VLOG in forever and there was no better way to show how much I need your help putting an outfit together for The Rock Ball that is taking place at The Hurlingham Club in London on March 31st. The glam event was put together by Rick Parfitt Jr. to raise money for Crohn's-Colitis UK and their research into a cure for IBD (inflammatory bowel disease) and I'm super excited about going and supporting this cause which I now have a considerable interest in.

I am also super nervous about the dress code and looking like I am either trying too hard (and failing!) or not trying hard enough (hello wall-flower! and NOBODY puts this baby in a corner).  Help?

Thanks for any fashion advice you might have!  

And, just so you know, I am feeling great these days!! The new medication (Remicade) seems to be working well and I feel like total remission will be declared as soon as the doc takes a little lookie-loo. Whenever that is. (I'm not exactly anxious for that particular appointment to be scheduled, if you know what I mean.)